Being in a relationship can be difficult. There are so many rules that you must follow if you want things to go smooth. However, since there’s no ‘perfect’ guide book, it can be difficult to know what to do and what not to do when in a relationship.
It is essential to understand that there are certain lines which you cannot cross. Here is an elaborate list of mistakes that you should not make in your relationship.
Let’s have a look.
Revealing your emotions at a very early stage
Relationships are hard bits, so you need to be very careful. Show your intense emotions in early stages of the relationship can force your partner to stay away. Most people are not comfortable with ‘too much love’, especially in the beginning.
Plus, they can also exploit you. Believe it or not, this is a common occurrence. So give yourself some time and let the relationship develop naturally.
Blowing their phone up
Constant messaging pushes people away. While texting is fun you need to know where to draw the line.
Constant texts and calls can annoy anyone. Remember they have a life as well. You should work on building a routine instead of bothering the other person with your texts every now and then.
Also, learn to text. It can bring people closer.
Faking interest
Do not try to fake your interest if you’re not interested. While it’s important to be polite, you need to know when to stop. Being fake is unattractive and may cause a rift between you two.
If you fake interest and get caught about your lies, it would dishearten them, and they would lose interest in you, as you would appear to them as a person who lies.
Being too clingy
We understand if you’re needy. Most of us are. But again, you need to know when to stop being clingy.
It’s important to expresss love and spend time togeher but you cannot be too clingy or too dependant on your partner. Give some space and let them do their things as well.
Remember that your partner had a life before you entered. They have their own friends, family members, and responsibilities. You must let them do their things instead of finding a way to be a part of everything they do.
Talking about your exes
Regardless of how your previous relationship went, your current partner does not want you to talk about your ex, good or bad.
Constantly talking about your ex indicates that you’re still not over them. This habit may put off your current partner and cause issues between the two of you. So bury your past in past and do not open locked doors.
Trying to control them
Do not be a control freak. You need to respect your partner and their choices. While it’s important to let your partner know what you like or prefer. You should never force them to do what pleases you.
Follow these tips and things will stay hunky dory in your relationship.
